ToDo list 1.0

Avoid church as a compensation for a loss of family. I come from a broken home, my relatives are at odds with each other, and I lack their regular presence and 'grooming'. now that I think about it especially my fathers! I disagree with a lot that my father has said and done, and not done, but he was a very physical man, and expressed his love very warmly, with hugs, and affection, and I miss that. Nothing can compensate for that, and that loss will take time to be refilled.